How many of us dream and do nothing about those dreams, which make us smile. I was just talking to a friend who told me about a 90 year-young-man just diagnosed with cancer. He is feeling good at this moment and is now living his life to its fullest. Why do we wait until we … Continue reading Take Control of Your Life
Attitude IS Everything
How we present ourselves in any situation sets the attitude anywhere at anytime. Our attitude reflects our behavior. If we walk into a room full of people with a smile, most will smile back when they look at us, and those smiling endorphins flow like a wildfire, which a great feeling. Our attitude affects others … Continue reading Attitude IS Everything
Rejection
This word should be a four letter word if you know what I mean. It's a harsh word to hear most of the time, well....I guess it all depends on which side of the rejection you are on. The word rejection is just a longer lettered word for the word "No." Rejection makes most of … Continue reading Rejection
Learn From Differences
I have a twitter account. I read a very rude response from someone on a very famous country western singers post. I was not only saddened, but also shocked that someone would judge others instead of learn from them. Although we won't all agree with one another's thoughts and/or actions, we can always learn something … Continue reading Learn From Differences
Being a Life Coach/Counselor
I love what I do. I give life experiences and lessons without charging. I help those who can't afford to hire counselors or life coaches. My life happiness IS to help those who need encouragement, uplifting and a different view of their senario. In all honesty, my heart explodes when someone has an Oprah's "ah … Continue reading Being a Life Coach/Counselor
Being in a Rut
We've all been there, digging a path going back and forth with our thoughts and actions until we get into a rut or some people say...we develop an unhealthy habit and find ourselves in a hole we feel we cannot dig out of. You can dig out of any hole if you set your mind … Continue reading Being in a Rut
Endurance
Boy I wish we all would have really paid attention in spelling class when the word "endurance" was given to us, along with understanding the meaning. According to Wikipedia, Merriam-Webster, and Yourdictonary.com, endurance means to work hard to accomplish something even when the going gets tough, without giving up. Endurance is facing difficult life challenges, … Continue reading Endurance
Don’t Judge or Compare
Life is hard enough without judgement from others or judging yourself. With the end of the 2021 year upon us, most of us have a lot of pressure between work, family, friends and most of all the pressure and judgement we put on ourselves. How can we stop all this judgement on one another and … Continue reading Don’t Judge or Compare
Confidence
Do you ever wonder why some people can do scary things without thinking twice about it, or how people can walk into a group of people they don't know and not feel intimidated? How about those individuals who wake up and think to themselves, "It's going to be a great day," even though they know … Continue reading Confidence
Perfectly Imperfect
I have counseled thousands of people and have done thousands of group counseling during my life. If you ask anyone I have counseled, "What does Alexis say at the end of counseling," most will say, "We are all perfectly imperfect." I love this saying and I have said it for a long time. Those who … Continue reading Perfectly Imperfect