Do I have your attention? I hope so because I want to let you, my readers, know how wonderful you are. Some of you may not believe this statement because you have not realized just how amazing you truly are and how amazing you can continue to be. You are beautiful/handson. You are a contributor to society without evening knowing it, we all are. You make a difference in our world. Having a positive contribution to this world is beyond important.

You are your best encourager. I certainly do tons of self-talking and questioning myself throughout the day. How we respond to our self-talk is what really matters. We have the choice to encourage ourselves when we question a thought, or we can take the easy way out and tell ourselves “it doesn’t matter what I do.” I can’t stress enough the importance of positive thinking regarding the questions we ask ourselves daily.

Live the life you deserve….and trust me…we all deserve an amazing life. How we live our life matters and affects our attitude. We matter and we all deserve to be happy. Yes, the world is chaotic at times, but how we respond to situations is up to us. We can either let life situations bother us, make us mad, make us sad, make us pissed off or make us want to give up, but we can also make every situation benefit us with positive self-talk.

Don’t compare yourself to others, choose to be authentic and follow your own positive path. Believe in yourself. Don’t believe you will fail without ever trying. You can go through life trying and failing, or you can go through life never trying and never knowing if you would have succeeded. If you don’t try…you will have those “should of, could of, would of” thoughts talking to you, which never puts anyone in a good mood.

Forgive yourself so you can move on with any past skeletons that may be holding you back from being your whole self. Although we can’t erase our memories, we can move forward. The saying is true, don’t look back at past mistakes or past events that hurt us. We can not change what has already happened, but we can move forward with positivity and knowing our future matters. We have control of how we view our future, or should I say……Look forward with eagerness and excitement. Don’t let the past have control of your future. YOU MATTER!!!

Trust the Journey and Life Lessons,

Alexis Life Coach Inner Abilities LLC

Alexis BSc(Psyc), MILC

Holistic Life Coach & Counselor