We judge things we do….. all the time. Sometimes, we don’t even know we are being judgemental because we are so use to judging every decision we make…. it’s just a natural everyday kinda thing. Every decision we me….we judge…. or some would say weighing the odds of each side involved. We spend so much precious time trying to figure out what is the best decision to make. Usually, the first thought that pops into our head…. is usually the one we go with, and then the self-doubt begins.

I am usually a very spontaneous individual. At times, I have a lot of self-doubt regarding my decisions. I spend way too much time trying to figure out if what I did was the right thing to do. I use to try so hard to figure out if I did the right thing or not after I do something big, I forget that I did it because it was something I wanted to do. Is it worth all the headache to try and figure out if the decision was correct or not???….heck no….We learn from what we do in life. We take chances and we learn from them. Nothing we do is not worth it….everything we do in life is a learning lesson. When we try too hard to figure out if what we are doing is right or not…. we waste our precious “life” time.

Many of us try to figure out if what we are doing is going to be approved by others, when…in fact….we have only ourselves to make happy. The saying is true my friends, “we have to make ourselves happy in order to spread happiness.” We will make mistakes with some choices we do throughout life. People will judge us and we will undoubtedly worry about what people think of our decisions, but the best part of life is to hold your head up high showing others that you are full aware of what you are doing. We may fall at times, but there is nothing more exciting in life than to learn lessons, move on from what you learned and just enjoy your life.

Trust the Journey and Life Lessons,

Alexis

Alexis Life Coach Inner Abilities LLC

Holistic Life Coach & Counseling