I want to talk about people talking behind your back and you getting upset about it. I recently saw a facebook post about this very subject and I experienced this subject recently. I want to ask everyone who reads my posts to sit back and think…. “Have I ever talked about someone that wasn’t a positive conversation behind their back?”

Everyone in the world has talked about someone without them being present…and trust me when I say the conversations are not always positive. Sometimes people just need to try and understand why someone is acting the way they are. It’s not always because that person is being mean, it’s because they don’t understand why the person they are talking about acts the way they do. It’s all about trying to understand.

Yes….we may not talk in a kind and loving manner, but I believe we talk behind someone’s back because we just don’t understand the person we are discussing. In my past I would be beyond upset if I found out someone was talking about me behind my back. Now….I understand the reasoning because everyone talks about everyone behind their backs.

Should we waste our precious time wondering why??? Heck no….Life is precious and every moment counts. When we find out someone is talking behind our back, ask yourself…..why is this happening and learn from it. Life is full of lessons and we can take these comments as negative thoughts, or we can take them as a positive and learn from it.

We’ve all been on each side of this topic. We can fester about it….Or we can learn from it…., the choice is yours. I choose to learn from what I find out and grow from it. One last thought about this topic…..if the person talking behind your back didn’t care about you….would they really waste their time talking behind your back? I choose to believe they care about you and that is why they talk about you 😉 .

You can always find a positive in everything and learn a lesson.

Trust The Journey,

Alexis