I started a book a long time ago and the title is, “I Use To Be“. I picked this title because I am such an entirely different person than I use to be. Trust me when I say, most of us are an entirely different person than we use to be. We change continuously and we grow from these changes, sometimes they are good growths and sometimes we can stunt our growth, but….We learn every time we change.

We change when we change jobs, get married, divorced, have children, move, have an illness, get into an argument with anyone, feel unloved, unwanted, confused….You get the picture right? We can change numerous times a day. We can actually wake up in a bad mood because we didn’t get enough sleep, something happens that makes us smile during the day, and boom….We change. This change can be a small change, such as our mood for a period of time, or it could be life changing which sometimes puts thoughts into our head that never go away.

I love change because if we never change we wouldn’t be who we are today, and pretty much be like a zombie without feelings and/or emotions. Now, some of you may be shaking your head thinking, I don’t like who I am….What are you going to do about this????? I’ll tell you what you should do….C H A N G E!!! Do something that makes you look back and say…”I Use To Be.” You can do it, you just have to believe in yourself. Changing is all about you and only you can change yourself into someone you love and trust.

I started a blog a little over a year ago and quit because I changed and thought I wasn’t helping people like I wanted to. Guess what, I learned that I did make a difference and I got into my own head believing I couldn’t make a difference. If I can help just one person change to believing in themselves, that is a great change for that person and that is what is important.

It’s never too late to CHANGE and say, “I Use To Be.”

Trust the Journey,

Alexis